When you begin dating someone, you want to look for qualities that would make him a good boyfriend. You need to be able to determine bad behaviour from good behaviour and make a choice about whether he’s the kind of man you’d want in your life long term.
Here are five signs that the man you’re dating will make a good boyfriend.
1. He likes to keep things interesting
If you’ve been dating a guy for the past month and you have spent every Saturday afternoon at the casino because it’s something he’s done every weekend for the past year, it might start to get boring after a while.
If you suggest doing something else on a Saturday and he rejects your idea because it doesn’t involve the casino, he won’t make a very interesting boyfriend. If the man you’re dating is up to trying new things, doesn’t mind a change in routine, and suggest things he knows you’d enjoy doing, he will make a great boyfriend.
2. He’s genuinely interested in your life
If the man you’re dating asks about your life, job, and family without being prompted to ask, he would make a good boyfriend. You want someone who shows an interest in you.
A man who doesn’t ask or seem to care what’s happening with you he might be too self-centered or just not care too much about others. This is something to consider when dating someone. You want someone who asks you how your project for work is going or how you’re enjoying the novel you’re reading.
3. He treats others kindly regardless of status
If the man you’re dating is talking to someone from work, a waiter, or a homeless person asking for money, and he is kind to each and everyone one of them despite the situation, you are dating a man who would be a good boyfriend.
You don’t want to date someone who is unkind to people he feels are below him. If he is rude to service people, he’s not the kind of man who will make a pleasant boyfriend you want to spend time with.
4. He enjoys his own life
When you begin dating someone, it’s important to notice how he enjoys his own life. Does he have hobbies he spends his time with? If a man has his own life outside of you, this is a good sign.
You don’t want to be with a man who doesn’t enjoy life and can’t seem to occupy his own time because you might start to notice that he clings to you and relies on you to keep him entertained. You want a man who is positive about his life and doesn’t need someone else to make him happy.
5. He doesn’t like drama
If you’re dating a man who doesn’t like drama, he will make a good boyfriend. You don’t want a man who will put up with your drama or be dramatic himself. Drama doesn’t being anything positive to a relationship even if it seems exciting at the time.
You don’t want a man who will kick up a fuss when you are too busy too spend time with him. A man who doesn’t like and won’t participate is a mature man who will make a good boyfriend.
If the man you’re dating exhibits good qualities like the ones mentioned above, he will probably make a good boyfriend. Make sure that you pay attention to both the good and bad in a person so that you can make a proper decision.